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Sep. 3rd, 2012

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I make very strange connections in my head when I'm running on very little sleep'

Ever feel like killing someone?

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 I really want to throttle my ex-sister in law.  HOnestly and truly wish she would disappear off the face of the planet!  She called my brother at mid-night and told him if he didn't bring their 4 year old back to her by this morning that she would accuse him of kidnapping.  He was supposed to have my niece for a week.  Now I have to explain to my 2 year old that her cousin isn't here anymore and that we're not going to play with her today.  Oh and she lives a 5 and 1/2 hour drive away.  This really really makes me wish her ill.  I just wish I could scream, can't cause it would scare my daughter.  What a crappy way to start a day.

Bedrest :{

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 I HATE BEDREST it's so damn BORING!  My house is a mess because I haven't been able to pick it up, the sink is full of dishes, my back is KILLING me.  All of this because I'm on BEDREST!  None of this is helping my stress levels at all.  Okay enough rantage I think I'll go back to my book now.


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I can't rant to anyone in real life they wouldn't understand so instead I"ll rant here.   I recently got into a band called Tokio Hotel, more into them then any band I've ever enjoyed before.  Yes I have watched the 6 min peaks into their lives provided by Tokio Hotel TV, yes I actually read the news blurbs on them and yes I think they're hot.   HOWEVER, I DO NOT believe that any fan has the right or privilege to stalk them to the point that the lead singer hates to leave his house.  I also am disgusted by the comments I read on the photos posted on their website and music videos posted on youtube.  PEOPLE PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE  these are humans they do have lives outside of music, no they DO NOT belong to their fans.  Love them, watch them, write fic that you mark as being untrue about them, but have the decency NOT to claim them as yours or say that you wish to have sex with them or anything along those lines, on a PUBLIC forum where KIDS can find and read, and if you are a kid then you damn well had better not be posting such things!   Sorry that's my rant, in conclusion  I am a big fan of Tokio Hotel, I would jump at a chance to meet them, but I don't believe I own them or any rights to there persons.  Goodnight.


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Okay the reason for my astonishment is simple, my husband accused me of being a "Drama Queen"  Alright let me give you a bit of background on the situation and then you decide.  My daughter has pnuemonia.  for the past four and a half days she's been whining and crying at me and for me, she wouldn't let anyone else NEAR her.  On top of all this I started shivering Saterdauy evening and couldn't stop for a good hour.  So today I snap ONCE and yell that I've had enough and I'm going to run away to the back room and my husband called me a drama queen, on top of all this since she's had rough night's and I've been the one getting up with her.  Please tell me if my reaction of stunned silence was not over the top nor is this rant.

Am I a terrible person?

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okay it 's been almost a year since I posted, am I terrible or what?  I've come to discover that being a stay at home mom is not for me I don't have the patients needed to be one.  So I work and my daughter's in daycare about 6-7 hours a day (I work at 5:15 am and get off between 1 and 3 pm)  Andrew takes Aislynn to daycare around 8 am.  I'm battling pnuemonia, a messy house and a guilty concience.  Somebody please tell me I'm not terrible for giving my cats back to the no kill shelter? PLEASE! They were pooping and peeing everywhere BUT their kitty litter box I tried everything I could think of for three months with no improvement, the final straw as it were was when the cat pooped in my work shoes (granted they're flip flops but still).  Andrew grandpa passed away in May and his Grandma is now in the hospital and not expected to last the year. I"ve lost 25 pounds.  I was made head guard recently, means better pay but more respinsibility and less people liking you.  I have the headache from hell and have had it for the past three days, it's not low iron and it's not dehydration, I have no clue what's causing it but I wish it would go away.

Ennegram results for me

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Taken from piseag and as she said wow are these accurate

you chose BX - your Enneagram type is NINE (aka "The Mediator")


"I am at peace"


Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union with others and the world around them.

How to Get Along with Me

  • If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don't like expectations or pressure.
  • I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advantage of this.
  • Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.
  • Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge me gently and nonjudgmentally.
  • Ask me questions to help me get clear.
  • Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery.
  • Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.
  • I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.
  • Let me know you like what I've done or said.
  • Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.

What I Like About Being a NINE

  • being nonjudgmental and accepting
  • caring for and being concerned about others
  • being able to relax and have a good time
  • knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around
  • my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good mediator and facilitator
  • my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and now
  • being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe

What's Hard About Being a NINE

  • being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive
  • being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline
  • being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally
  • being confused about what I really want
  • caring too much about what others will think of me
  • not being listened to or taken seriously

NINEs as Children Often

  • feel ignored and that their wants, opinions, and feelings are unimportant
  • tune out a lot, especially when others argue
  • are "good" children: deny anger or keep it to themselves

NINEs as Parents

  • are supportive, kind, and warm
  • are sometimes overly permissive or nondirective

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele  

Aug. 15th, 2008

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 guess it's been long enough since I posted last.  Since then many things have happened, Aislynn pulled herself up on the coffee table for the first time on July 21st, she also now has her first tooth out of her gums.  I am working as a swim insructor part time, I'm going to have to find a better paying job around November though.  My ear infection has cleared up, but if I get another one in three months or less I have to get tubes. 

Jul. 8th, 2008

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I have a middle ear infection in BOTH ears, this infection is one that affects mostly children under the age of 6!!!  Can I say this sucks?!!  Well that's what's up with me.

Jun. 25th, 2008

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Here's the meme:

The Big Read reckons that the average adult has only read 6 of the top 100 books they've printed. Well, let's see.

1) Look at the list and bold those you have read.
2) Italicize those you intend to read.
3) Underline the books you LOVE.

1. The Lord of the Rings, JRR Tolkien
2. Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen

3. His Dark Materials, Philip Pullman
4. The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Douglas Adams
5. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, JK Rowling

6. To Kill a Mockingbird, Harper Lee
7. Winnie the Pooh, AA Milne

8. Nineteen Eighty-Four, George Orwell
9. The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, CS Lewis
10. Jane Eyre, Charlotte Brontë

11. Catch-22, Joseph Heller
12. Wuthering Heights, Emily Brontë
13. Birdsong, Sebastian Faulks
14. Rebecca, Daphne du Maurier
15. The Catcher in the Rye, JD Salinger

16. The Wind in the Willows, Kenneth Grahame
17. Great Expectations, Charles Dickens
18. Little Women, Louisa May Alcott

19. Captain Corelli's Mandolin, Louis de Bernieres
20. War and Peace, Leo Tolstoy
21. Gone with the Wind, Margaret Mitchell
22. Harry Potter And The Philosopher's Stone, JK Rowling
23. Harry Potter And The Chamber Of Secrets, JK Rowling
24. Harry Potter And The Prisoner Of Azkaban, JK Rowling

25. The Hobbit, JRR Tolkien
26. Tess Of The D'Urbervilles, Thomas Hardy
27. Middlemarch, George Eliot
28. A Prayer For Owen Meany, John Irving
29. The Grapes Of Wrath, John Steinbeck
30. Alice's Adventures In Wonderland, Lewis Carroll

31. The Story Of Tracy Beaker, Jacqueline Wilson
32. One Hundred Years Of Solitude, Gabriel García Márquez
33. The Pillars Of The Earth, Ken Follett
34. David Copperfield, Charles Dickens
35. Charlie And The Chocolate Factory, Roald Dahl
36. Treasure Island, Robert Louis Stevenson

37. A Town Like Alice, Nevil Shute
38. Persuasion, Jane Austen
39. Dune, Frank Herbert
40. Emma, Jane Austen
41. Anne Of Green Gables, LM Montgomery
42. Watership Down, Richard Adams
43. The Great Gatsby, F Scott Fitzgerald

44. The Count Of Monte Cristo, Alexandre Dumas
45. Brideshead Revisited, Evelyn Waugh
46. Animal Farm, George Orwell
47. A Christmas Carol, Charles Dickens

48. Far From The Madding Crowd, Thomas Hardy
49. Goodnight Mister Tom, Michelle Magorian
50. The Shell Seekers, Rosamunde Pilcher
51. The Secret Garden, Frances Hodgson Burnett
52. Of Mice And Men, John Steinbeck
53. The Stand, Stephen King
54. Anna Karenina, Leo Tolstoy
55. A Suitable Boy, Vikram Seth
56. The BFG, Roald Dahl
57. Swallows And Amazons, Arthur Ransome
58. Black Beauty, Anna Sewell
59. Artemis Fowl, Eoin Colfer
60. Crime And Punishment, Fyodor Dostoyevsky
61. Noughts And Crosses, Malorie Blackman
62. Memoirs Of A Geisha, Arthur Golden
63. A Tale Of Two Cities, Charles Dickens
64. The Thorn Birds, Colleen McCollough
65. Mort, Terry Pratchett
66. The Magic Faraway Tree, Enid Blyton
67. The Magus, John Fowles
68. Good Omens, Terry Pratchett and Neil Gaiman
69. Guards! Guards!, Terry Pratchett
70. Lord Of The Flies, William Golding
71. Perfume, Patrick Süskind
72. The Ragged Trousered Philanthropists, Robert Tressell
73. Night Watch, Terry Pratchett
74. Matilda, Roald Dahl
75. Bridget Jones's Diary, Helen Fielding
76. The Secret History, Donna Tartt
77. The Woman In White, Wilkie Collins
78. Ulysses, James Joyce
79. Bleak House, Charles Dickens
80. Double Act, Jacqueline Wilson
81. The Twits, Roald Dahl
82. I Capture The Castle, Dodie Smith
83. Holes, Louis Sachar
84. Gormenghast, Mervyn Peake
85. The God Of Small Things, Arundhati Roy
86. Vicky Angel, Jacqueline Wilson
87. Brave New World, Aldous Huxley
88. Cold Comfort Farm, Stella Gibbons
89. Magician, Raymond E Feist
90. On The Road, Jack Kerouac
91. The Godfather, Mario Puzo
92. The Clan Of The Cave Bear, Jean M Auel (currently reading)
93. The Colour Of Magic, Terry Pratchett
94. The Alchemist, Paulo Coelho
95. Katherine, Anya Seton
96. Kane And Abel, Jeffrey Archer
97. Love In The Time Of Cholera, Gabriel García Márquez
98. Girls In Love, Jacqueline Wilson
99. The Princess Diaries, Meg Cabot
100. Midnight's Children, Salman Rushdie

It does not match the top 100 going around in the meme, but it is the current top 100 according to "The Big Read."

Huh well I'm only missing four books in the top 25, lol and that's not even close to an eighth of the books that I've read in my lifetime, lol.  Well I think that the Big Read needs to rethink its statistics here.
Taken from fyredancer


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